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So my friend went to Vegas with a bunch of his friends to party and have a good time. Before he left I asked him to bring me back some Rosin carts. For those who don’t know weed, these are disposable cartridges (they look like the vapes kids smoke nowadays). Rosin is a very expensive and high quality grade type of concentrate.
The grades are 1) distillate - very low quality extracted with solvents/butane. 2) live resin - still extracted with butane but more flavorful
3) Rosin - very strong, but more importantly all the oils being vaporized is from the plant itself, no outside oils. It’s basically frozen dried plant matter, that gets the oils pressed out of it. It is a solventless extract

He told me ok he has a ton of time and not much planned up there, he will be sure to do it.
I told him that I know he plans on going on a bender and letting loose and if he could make sure to buy the carts, maybe buy them early on in his trip. He doesn’t have a car so I said I would pay for the Uber to get to the dispo.
He told me to calm down and reassured me he’s going to get it. (I believed him)

Anyways long story short he’s up there partying and hes coming home already. Definitely didn’t buy the carts. Like I know he was doing me a favor and I should be lucky he even entertained the request, but this guy always makes promises he can’t keep but makes it sound like he’s so sure he’s going to do it.

I can’t help but feel a little disappointed and disrespected by him not following through. I would him have rather said there is no promises but he will try. Getting my hopes up like that and then not doing is a shitty feeling.

He knows it means a lot to me since I try to keep my body healthy. I eat edibles but the delayed onset and timing makes it hard for me to enjoy. Like I can only eat an edible Saturday night or Sunday morning. It would have been nice to take one rip from the least harmful vaporizing option. (Smoking weed is combusting and the other carts are filled with garbage. I would only take one rip once or twice a week but still, I’m kind of a hypochondriac when it comes to enjoying vices)

I know I might sound entitled but man I really got my hopes up because he was so confident he would get it for me. Literally the only thing to help me take the edge off some days.

Anyways… let me have it sherdog. Do I even have a right to be irritated? Or am I just an entitled junkie who wants to inject the marijuanas… Maybe I need to be put in perspective
 
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this guy always makes promises he can’t keep but makes it sound like he’s so sure he’s going to do it.

If you knew this in advance you can't be too surprised. If he's really your friend you've got to accept his shortcomings like this if he makes up for it with his character in other ways.
 
Yeah, I think you should let this one go TS. If someone was moaning at me that I forgot to buy them something on my vacation then I'd think they were being a dick.
Yeah I’m not gonna bring it up. Just pissed cuz it’s not the first time he’s made promises and not delivered.
 
If you knew this in advance you can't be too surprised. If he's really your friend you've got to accept his shortcomings like this if he makes up for it with his character in other ways.
Too true. I should have realized this is just a part of his makeup
 
If I’m in Vegas on vacation with no car living my best life, fuck your weed unless I somehow end up at a weed store.

Still, he should have just been straight with you and said that. Maybe he was worried about legal issues or maybe he was just enjoying his trip
 
Its never a question whether it is nice (or wrong) to a) not keep your word and b) not respect/care for your friends wishes.
Thats not a real friend. Keeping ones word tells everything about a man. Even more so to a friend, who should be at the top of the list.
Expect a lot of lame excuses/rationalizations instead of sincere apology... he doesnt give a sh1t.
If I’m in Vegas on vacation with no car living my best life, fuck your weed unless I somehow end up at a weed store.

Still, he should have just been straight with you and said that. Maybe he was worried about legal issues or maybe he was just enjoying his trip
Yeah he’s just a people pleaser who says things but sometimes doesn’t have it all planned out, a lot of times to the detriment of himself.


OP, you sound like a pain the arse, to be brutally honest. Buy a dry herb vapouriser if you're so worried about combustion. They're not that expensive.
Yeah I have one. Doesn’t work really well and it’s a pain in the ass. Was vaping some cbd flower I ordered online before. I’m over it
 
No, no right to be offended. Buddy forgot or didn't get around to it... people make mistakes. Or he just found it too much of a pain in the ass to take a special car trip just for you and he couldn't be bothered. It didn't cost you anything so you don't get to bitch IMO. Say, "Oh well, that's unfortunate" and move on with the rest of your day.
 
“Health conscious “ complaining about not getting his weed lol. Sorry but had to laugh. He’s clearly not a solid guy but If he’s constantly disappointing you, you shouldn’t count on him enough to get let down. Sounds like he needs to grow up.
 
Yeah he’s just a people pleaser who says things but sometimes doesn’t have it all planned out, a lot of times to the detriment of himself.



Yeah I have one. Doesn’t work really well and it’s a pain in the ass. Was vaping some cbd flower I ordered online before. I’m over it

Which one do you own? I use a Starry V3 and it absolutely works. Not much more involved in using it than there is with using a bong. I don't vape CBD bud though. Do you live somewhere where it's still illegal?
 
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