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I was training today in a striking class. It's a small group of mostly regulars and a pretty chill class. We spar regularly, but go about 50-70%. There are only a few people who occasionally get amped up and go too hard.
Today I noticed a guy I've seen there before who usually trains at different time. This guy is highly skilled and I've seen him rough up a few people. He's always struck me as a bully, so I stayed away from him even for technique drilling.
Near the end of class the instructor had us do some body conditioning where we just struck to the body for three minutes. This is a drill where we smack each other pretty hard, but still don't go 100%.
We traded partners every round. I managed to avoid the guy I didn't trust, but noticed he paired up with a noob for the final round, some fat guy who'd only been training for about 6 weeks.
The gym bully worked this kid over so hard that he ended up puking in the trash can both from fatigue and blows. After a few minutes, the bully asked him if he was okay then said, "I was just trying to push you there and gas you out."
The fat kid said, "I was already gassed before we even started."
The whole thing seemed so disingenuous. What the hell is the point of beating the shit out of some fat guy? It's not like he's there training to be an actual fighter.
We had some extra time for sparring after class. I always spar unless I'm injured, but there was no way in hell I was going to risk getting matched up with that sociopath. He is way younger, quicker and better skilled than me. I might go hard with someone who is being a dick if I think I can at least hang with them, but I knew this guy would just give me a beating, and I'm not there to get brain damage.
One of the other fairly experienced guys did go with the bully. He was giving up about 30 pounds and got absolutely wrecked as the bully caught him flush over and over with 100% shots.
After that round the bully and the coach paired up. I figured that they were matched pretty evenly and was interested in seeing them war. Well, suddenly the bully finds his self control and they spar 60-70%.
So, 100% for people who he outweighs and has outclassed and controlled sparring for a peer. What a complete scumbag.
I left the gym pretty pissed off about the entire thing and vowed to walk out of any class where he participates. I will also talk to the instructor. He should not have allowed any of that to happen. He expects light sparring and has even yelled at me before just for matching the intensity of someone who was being a dickhead spaz.
So, I'm not sure why he let this go.
The other option is to talk to the bully, but the guy seems like a total goon who enjoys hurting people and I'm not interested. But it did bring to mind a question. See, people often counsel you to talk things through with gym bullies or spazzes, but does it ever actually work? Seems to me that the enforcement needs to come from the coach.
Today I noticed a guy I've seen there before who usually trains at different time. This guy is highly skilled and I've seen him rough up a few people. He's always struck me as a bully, so I stayed away from him even for technique drilling.
Near the end of class the instructor had us do some body conditioning where we just struck to the body for three minutes. This is a drill where we smack each other pretty hard, but still don't go 100%.
We traded partners every round. I managed to avoid the guy I didn't trust, but noticed he paired up with a noob for the final round, some fat guy who'd only been training for about 6 weeks.
The gym bully worked this kid over so hard that he ended up puking in the trash can both from fatigue and blows. After a few minutes, the bully asked him if he was okay then said, "I was just trying to push you there and gas you out."
The fat kid said, "I was already gassed before we even started."
The whole thing seemed so disingenuous. What the hell is the point of beating the shit out of some fat guy? It's not like he's there training to be an actual fighter.
We had some extra time for sparring after class. I always spar unless I'm injured, but there was no way in hell I was going to risk getting matched up with that sociopath. He is way younger, quicker and better skilled than me. I might go hard with someone who is being a dick if I think I can at least hang with them, but I knew this guy would just give me a beating, and I'm not there to get brain damage.
One of the other fairly experienced guys did go with the bully. He was giving up about 30 pounds and got absolutely wrecked as the bully caught him flush over and over with 100% shots.
After that round the bully and the coach paired up. I figured that they were matched pretty evenly and was interested in seeing them war. Well, suddenly the bully finds his self control and they spar 60-70%.
So, 100% for people who he outweighs and has outclassed and controlled sparring for a peer. What a complete scumbag.
I left the gym pretty pissed off about the entire thing and vowed to walk out of any class where he participates. I will also talk to the instructor. He should not have allowed any of that to happen. He expects light sparring and has even yelled at me before just for matching the intensity of someone who was being a dickhead spaz.
So, I'm not sure why he let this go.
The other option is to talk to the bully, but the guy seems like a total goon who enjoys hurting people and I'm not interested. But it did bring to mind a question. See, people often counsel you to talk things through with gym bullies or spazzes, but does it ever actually work? Seems to me that the enforcement needs to come from the coach.