I do feel a bit of empathy for her, but she's doing this to herself.
Yes, she was stupid af to think she could do that and it wouldn't follow her around her whole life, so she needs to thicken her skin and accept it will always be revisited until explaining that she shot like 20-some videos in a period of 3 months or whatever it was feels like such a minor youthful, rebellious mistake to oppress and define your biography for the rest of your life.
But it is what it is, Mia. Until you own it dispassionately, and chiefly, make discussion of that as boring as possible, nobody will want to talk about anything else. Maybe that cuts to the jib, though. They won't want to speak to you at all. Why do you think they want to talk to you, specifically? Your name is built on this alone. Why do you continue to try to live in the public eye? If you want to move on from being a pornstar remaining in the public eye isn't the best way to leave that life behind.
She seems like a sweet girl that isn't entirely retarded, but she's letting her lust for fame cloud her judgment, and her ability to accept how the choice she made transformed her life forever; so that she can move on. That part of it isn't a unique flaw. It is shared by millions. But she seems confused by the fact the underlying mistake is not.