I mean money is cool, but being treated like sh*t surely isn't if that indeed turns out to be Conor, which it looks like is the case.
And are you defending cheating? Have you thought about Dee maybe getting hurt by his previous actions but just feeling too weak too leave him? Are you suggesting she'd deserve something like this?
Uhm, why does Lee hide Nazis in her house? and who are these guys supposed to be?
Also: what is it with that "that's not how the world works"?
Go on. I'd like to hear your opinion on this.
My opinion is the world would be a better place if women stood up for themselves against men, if men stood up against more powerful men, if lots of things. But that's not how ppl generally behave and it's unfair to put that on Dee, that she should do something.
I feel she should do what her personality dictates, which is supporting her man. If she were the kind of woman who's self-respect and concern shone more brightly than her love of her man she'd have left. But she's put up with AAAAAALLLLLLLL his bs to this point so we can see she will continue to do so and at least she's getting paid.
The kind of woman who would leave would have left SOOOO long ago - and the kind of woman who didn't isn't going to because he's cheated for the 597th time. If the other 596 didn't seal the deal this one won't either is all I"m saying.
I myself am a loving and respectful guy and my women are all loved and listened to, and inspired, and respected. My daughter has such a solid relationship with me dudes have a hard time impressing her at her young age so I'm 1000% sure she won't end up in Dee's situation.
But it starts early. I don't think we should look at Conor's bs and say Dee should do anything. I think we should say that maybe her parents should have raised her differently in the past but that's all done. Now she's Conor's wife and she loves that drunken, cheating man. And I respect her enough to not feel like she ought to do anything she doesn't feel motivated to do.
And yes, I've thought of her feelings and said "poor Dee". But I've learned to respect women's choices and their right to choose douchebags just as much as I've learned to accept men's poor choices when they date douchebags.
I think Dee has figured out how she prefers to live, given her options. She is a very sympathetic character so I do feel your pain.