Social (AMA) Divorced at 50, I'm trying polyamory and Ethical Non-Monogamy

I am yet to see a polyamorous relationship where polyamoria is not a fancy name for something worse, where some of the involved are whores and others are miserable.
If it is truly ok with you and all your partners, go live your best life. No judging you at all (especially from me, lol), but the term itself has a fishy reputation.
 
POWER2 said:
I see one of my female friends about 2-3 times a week. We go on regular dates, we cuddle, we discuss politics/art/history/science and we fuck. Sometimes we sit around and talk on the phone after dates. The only ppl they isolate from their lifestyle are their kids- if kids are in the picture.

To be honest, some of these women are so goddamn fine that I wonder how someone can share too. LOL But, that man gets to do his thing as well.
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So the chick is married as well, or not? How many do you have on the go? Men as well as women?
 
POWER2 said:
I fucked so much before I got married. Trust me, this ain't about just fucking. It's about the freedom to choose when and how I make commitments.
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.if you go through hundreds, and decide on a controlling partner , that’s about missing the signals…the age thing has to do with spending enough time together prior to marriage.
There are signs, also establishing what you will allow into your life..
 
ssBaldy said:
I am yet to see a polyamorous relationship where polyamoria is not a fancy name for something worse, where some of the involved are whores and others are miserable.
If it is truly ok with you and all your partners, go live your best life. No judging you at all (especially from me, lol), but the term itself has a fishy reputation.
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In my experience of encountering couples that are into this stuff, its usually one dominant partner who's insisting upon the conditions, and a more submissive (usually less attractive) partner going along with it (and not getting much action themselves).

For example - hot girl and not very hot guy who's just lucky to be with her so is okay with her fucking other men.
 
The_Renaissance said:
In my experience of encountering couples that are into this stuff, its usually one dominant partner who's insisting upon the conditions, and a more submissive (usually less attractive) partner going along with it (and not getting much action themselves).

For example - hot girl and not very hot guy who's just lucky to be with her so is okay with her fucking other men.
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I doubt he's really ok with that :) but yes, that's the situation I talk about.
 
Times have changed. Really, women have changed.It used to be women had some shame about being promiscuous. (not saying it's good or bad) My son goes away to college. He is 6'2 football player. He is telling me stories of how it is musical rooms every night in his dorms. I was prolific in those times, but nothing like what these kids are like. He says he gets texts nightly from different girls asking to "snuggle" because it's cold. He said him and his roommate sometimes get multiple offers in a night, every night. They might not even know them that well. The dorm converted an empty room into a crash room if someone's roommate is getting busy in their rooms. He said someone is in there every night, sometimes so many some are crashing on the floor. I truly believe the shift in Women's attitudes is fueling this. He says girls brag about "body counts". I told him he is playing with fire (literally) if he doesn't be safe about it, and avoid the ones that keep a notch mark on their wall. Some STDs never go away.
 
I Am Legion said:
Times have changed. Really, women have changed.It used to be women had some shame about being promiscuous. (not saying it's good or bad) My son goes away to college. He is 6'2 football player. He is telling me stories of how it is musical rooms every night in his dorms. I was prolific in those times, but nothing like what these kids are like. He says he gets texts nightly from different girls asking to "snuggle" because it's cold. He said him and his roommate sometimes get multiple offers in a night, every night. They might not even know them that well. The dorm converted an empty room into a crash room if someone's roommate is getting busy in their rooms. He said someone is in there every night, sometimes so many some are crashing on the floor. I truly believe the shift in Women's attitudes is fueling this. He says girls brag about "body counts". I told him he is playing with fire (literally) if he doesn't be safe about it, and avoid the ones that keep a notch mark on their wall. Some STDs never go away.
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When my daughters were in college, sororities would try everything they could to seduce gay guys because that didn't add to their body counts <Lmaoo>
 
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