man, this shit is so conflicting because it happened to me, i was 14 years and 11 months old, so basically 15 let's say, when i popped my cherry with a much older woman, over 20, and it was amazing and i wouldn't change a thing.
when it comes to dudes doing it with young girls it's always predatory to my judgement, but when it comes to boys, fuck, man, it simply did not seem predatory to me - maybe it's because i was already bigger than her and there's no way she could have physically overpowered me in any way. i could have stopped it at will.
was she, as an adult, doing something that society considers bad? i guess. did it seem bad to me, did it inflict any kind of pain or mental anguish on me, would i change anything about it happening, did it leave mental scars that affected my development or sexuality moving forward? - ABSOLUTELY NOT.