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I'm 43, married with kids. I got a good job, love my family and friends.
Yet, I have absolutely no desire to live past 70. Even now I can feel the energy and vitality of my youth has faded, and it's not going to get easier to maintain regardless of how much I exercise or eat right. There's nothing appealing about life after 70 in that I don't care to sit at home all day or go to the casino, or live with limited mobility. The idea of living to enjoy my retirement years and seeing grandkids sounds great, but I just can't get over the fact I'd an old man. Like, what's the point ?
I figure, why not live for the moment, buy the nicer car, stop saving for retirement, go on the vacations, drink and eat merry and then just off myself when I turn 70 ? I value quality over quantity and I notice that I'm having to spend less now in order to save more money in hopes that I'll live long enough to retire with a respectable income. At 43, I should be going on vacations now and doing fun things while my body still holds up. Yet I put away $900/month towards my retirement every month - and for what ? So I enjoy my 70s and maybe 80s ?
What say you ?
Midlife crisis? Facing your mortality for the first time?
Go full cliche and buy the red Porsche and date younger women.
...shit