There are far more variables than just their age. That's obvious to anyone who is in an actual supervisory role of children. If you walk by a six year old choking another six year old and think "that seems normal, I'm going to let kids be kids" then you have an obvious issue.
Its seems you have some reading comprehension problems. Of course you are going to stop it, the post was talking about advice for the parent not the supervisor. I thought that seemed very obvious. It is the aftermath that we are talking about and realizing that a supervisor is not always going to be able to stop things.
Indeed, physical harm is important. That's not what TS confirmed. Reading comprehension is also important.
No marks and she didn't even cry when it happened. However, being tough doesn't mean it's open season to physically assault you.
Sounds confirmed to me but maybe I just can't read.
I never said what I would do. I was merely pointing out that your strategy of "let kids be kids because they're six years old" is idiotic.
Agree to disagree with this one. I would say that teaching a kid that nobody is going to bully you is more idiotic.
I haven't met you and your level of intelligence is a pretty strong indication that it wouldn't be worthwhile. None of my kids were coddled. Thankfully they were also taught that choking other kids for no reason was unacceptable. You see, if you had any semblance of intelligence you would realize that it is possible to be tough while understanding bullying and choking are uncacceptable. Somehow, my kids at 6 years old were more intelligent than you.
Again your reading comprehension and your assumptions are sending you way off course. This child didn't choke anybody.
The advice I would give to the bully's parents would be very different, they are different situations. You see, unacceptable things happen everyday.
No school or policy is going to magically stop this. As intelligent as you think you are, you can't understand this?
What's overwhelmingly clear here is that you're using a thread about a six year old being bullied and choked to try and make
yourself seem tough
Again, you really shouldn't be working with children.
Not sure how I am making myself seem tough. I am using a thread about a six year old being bullied and choked to try and offer some realistic advice to a parent dealing with this. I then had someone go off on a weird rebuttal because they make too many assumptions with very little information and because they cannot understand viewpoints that are not their own.
Bottom line this is still a thread written by a parent about their child being bullied so I'll stop it here.
If you would like to continue a debate on child development, feel free to PM me any time.