Should I tell a friend his girl cheated on her?

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Well, I'm not entirely sure if she cheated on him or not, but here's the back story.

I know this guy from work and this girl used to work at the same casino years ago. They've been together for about 2 years now. I'm not too close with this guy, but I see him at work and sometimes he hangs with the same groups of people I do.

Last night, a couple of friends and I went to PT's pub. And just a couple hours ago, I saw the girl with 3 dudes around her. And she was talking some nasty shit like taking on multiple guys at the same time. My co-worker was not in the bar and she didn't recognize me. She was focused on the 3 dudes hanging around her. They're still a couple as their facebook pages still have them all hugging and shit as their main photos.

We left the bar before they did, so I'm not 100% sure if she took those dudes home or not.

I don't really want to get into other people's business, but would you tell a not-so-close buddy of yours if something similar happened to you?

I'll post a pic of her later. I'm going to bed.
 
Blackmail her for secks. Face it, it's the only way you'll possibly get laid.
 
No. Just say what you saw, and let him figure out the rest
 
Tough situation especially if he's not a close friend. You should've snapped a stealth pic or video of her and let it magically appear where he would see it.
 
Unless he's a very close friend, I wouldn't say a thing. It's pretty easy to spin things around and make you the bad guy.
 
Sounds pretty hilarious so I'd definitely tell him
 
Seriously?!?

Don't be a fucking idiot.
 
Yes, tell him. She sounds like a whore and probably deserves someone better. You for example ;)
 
Of course you should tell him, but don't add the cheating part if you're not 100% certain. Be tactful of how you say it. In this case beating around the bush isn't a bad choice. Just mentioned you saw his girl at the pub and leave it at that.
 
Unless you are 100% sure, and you have great proof, I wouldn't bother. You tell your buddy and then it turns out she didn't cheat, or that she lies and he believes her, and then suddenly you're the shit starting asshole.
 
There's only one way to find out if she's faithful. You know what you need to do. Bust out that Axe body spray son.
 
For a real friend you go there and tell him everything

For a random guy you just know, mind your business
 
Tell him what you saw but as another poster said, prepare for this to be twisted around against you in some way.
 
lol. why not take a pic and email it to him from fake email account.

don't get personally involved for two reasons: (1) messengers never leave unscathed and (2) this incident isn't the only clue that there is something wrong with their relationship; he has blinders on already
 
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