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Well we are going to have to agree to disagree.
I will grant you that influencing or manipulating someone could cause the victim to act gay, yes. But I refuse to believe that someone can actually change their basic instinctual sexual preference (men or women).
Am I the only one that feels this way? I don't think so, as most straight males I've talked to would agree with me. No amount of pressure, coaxing, or manipulation could make me actually prefer to be with a man over a woman. If you say that is not your experience then it's as I said, you may be a bisexual and just don't recognize it.
I'm not so sure that molestation and porn can turn someone gay either. It may lead to various forms of perverted sexual practices, becoming desensitized to it, however I still honestly cannot see how that could change the way someone innately feels about being straight or being gay. For the people who do change, as you stated, more than likely they were always gay to begin with, or bisexuals at the very least.
And you asked how I would know if I grew up in a household that encouraged me to be gay that I would still be straight? I know because it's instinctual. The thought of french kissing a man is repulsive to me personally and always has been. I had a crush on a girl in my kindergarten class - not because I thought that was expected of me, but because I'm simply not sexually attracted to males.
"Multiple trans kids in homes". Sorry. This planet has 6.5 billion people. You can find outliers in anything that contains so many variables. When we have much larger and healthier populations on earth than ever before, yes, you are going to see an increase in trans/gay/etc. Couple that with social media and the Internet, and people's abilities to broadcast their lives for anyone to see, along with the fact that the social stigma is disintegrating, and it's not difficult to see why it APPEARS as if there are so many more trans or gay people than before. It's an illusion dependent on a multitude of factors and my contention is that it's not because everyone is "turning gay" from seeing two cartoon bears holding hands in a story book.
Of course no amount of pressure could coax you into changing your sexual preference because you aren't a 6 year old who lacks hormones and hasn't even gone through puberty yet. We already went through this. This isn't about the opinion of you and your bros not being able to be coaxed into kissing a dude. We're talking about undeveloped, malleable minds that have not gone through puberty and do not have hormones that affect their sexual being. Neither of us can even relate to that situation so it's completely pointless to try comparing your fully developed brain and the way you think as an adult to a child in that situation.
You keep trying to relate the issues going on in a small child's brain to the way you'd handle the issues right now as a grown ass man and that's not how we need to think about these things. You have no idea if the thought of french kissing a man would be repulsive if you were brought up with french kissing men plastered all over the place as normal when you grew up. How do you know that you liked a girl in kindergarten because you were born that way and not because your parents and society nudged you in that direction? You didn't even have the hormones to even know what to do with a girl yet.
Like I said, 20% of Gen Z'ers affiliate themselves with LGBTQ. What that means, I don't know exactly but I can tell you that it's not standard "I was born this way" type of behavior. A woman was just shown at a rally who claimed to have 4 transgendered children. I'm sorry but I don't know what to tell you if you think that it's just a statistical anomaly that the super liberal mom with pink and green hair just happened to have the genes that made all her kids trans and them being trans has nothing to do with their mother's ideological beliefs.