Grandfather. Fought for the soviets in WWII. Spent the majority of the war in a POW camp, escaped, but was recaptured, and finally freed by the Americans. He spent almost 2 years on an American base in Austria recovering from malnutrition. Dude lived to be 96.
That's badass. My grandfather was with 101st in Nam. Wounded twice in hamburger hill, first night after losing most of his platoon he and his friends were on edge watching the wire. They hear a maddening screaming and they open fire on the tree line, shooting flares and opening fire with everything they got, thinking the whole vc army is coming after them.
Next day the survey the carnage. The battlefield littered with dead monkeys. So to save face.. They ate the monkeys.
The first day he caught a round to the side of the neck, but stayed. Second day on hamburger hill an Rpg blew apart a three next to him. He was pronounced dead and managed to survive.
He managed to become a prominent psychologist and professor in Oklahoma, he married a brain surgeon. He got cancer from the agent orange and during surgery, one in which he was basically sure to die, he survived.
During his surgery his wife at the time took everything. When he finished surgery he sat outside calling his wife to no avail. He taxied home and found her and everything gone. He didn't call to complain, he was just thankful to be alive and tended to his garden.
The cancer flared up several times and each time he beat it until now. We always knew how bad he was doing when his garden would suffer, so I would always go help him with his garden. He never once let us see him in pain. Shooing everyone away when he would fall to his knees in agony, clutching the cross he wore around his neck and thanking God to be alive every time.
He taught me what it is to love food, and how important it is to spend time with the ones you love. He married the sweetheart of his youth and even though he's terminal they spend every day together. Cooking every night and silently reading together.
He's the bravest man I know, and he's terminal, His biggest concern in my life is that I'm unhappy and don't know how to be happy, so I'm doing my damndest to make him proud before he dies.