Why does every guy talk about how bad marriage is?

[ThaiSexPills]

I’ve been with the same woman for 5 years and she’s fantastic and I enjoy her company. We do a lot together and I think she’s earned it. When our new house is finally finished, I’m going to propose. Can someone please explain what a ceremony changed in your common law partnership?

I’m going to get a prenup to clarify what’s legally mine before we do but besides that, I’m excited about it. Hiding this diamond is going to be difficult.

 

[Get To Da Choppa]

I’ve been with the same woman for 5 years and she’s fantastic and I enjoy her company. We do a lot together and I think she’s earned it. When our new house is finally finished, I’m going to propose. Can someone please explain what a ceremony changed in your common law partnership?

I’m going to get a prenup to clarify what’s legally mine before we do but besides that, I’m excited about it. Hiding this diamond is going to be difficult.

After marriage the blowjobs dry up and the nagging goes up

Ps best of luck up you Sherbro, and may your post marriage BJs be plenty

 

[Uber_Noober]

It’s the old bait and switch

 

[Daveb]

I just recently got divorced after being with a woman for 15 years. Truth is people change over time. I'm not totally soured on the institution of marriage but going through the pain of a divorce will absolutely play into my future decision making. Ps get that prenup, trust me its worth it

 

[Pliny Pete]

You got pretty hands

 

[Substance Abuse]

If you were truly happy, you wouldn't be parading this on the Dawg. Good luck.

 

[Sweater of AV]

I’ve been with the same woman for 5 years and she’s fantastic and I enjoy her company. We do a lot together and I think she’s earned it. When our new house is finally finished, I’m going to propose. Can someone please explain what a ceremony changed in your common law partnership?

I’m going to get a prenup to clarify what’s legally mine before we do but besides that, I’m excited about it. Hiding this diamond is going to be difficult.

Hmm...obviously I don't know the dynamics of your relationship but have you guys seriously talked about the expectations of marriage? You might need to do that before you jump in.

 

[ChickenBrother]

Good luck TS and it sounds like you and your lady have a good thing going. I agree with the comments above. But other than that, putting a ring on it and making it official didn't really change much for us but we had already been living together for 3 years at that point and that's enough time to know each other pretty well. If you two have a truly happy relationship with full trust and you're not habitually fighting about the same shit, it's probably a good match. Speaking from personal experience however, if you guys are having fundamental disagreements and there's friction in the relationship, those will only get worse after marriage when you guys stop pulling punches with each other.

 

[nostradumbass]

I like the "she's earned it" part, like you're getting married as a reward or a favor to her.

I don't know that every guy complains about it, but like the whole design of it is for the guy to give up some of his freedom for the woman to pursue her desire for motherhood in a stable environment, and for some strange reason, a lot of people don't seem to realize that in advance and thought you get married because it's the hottest chick that'll have sex with you.

 

[Otto!]

There are good marriages and bad ones. People do change over time but don’t let that deter you as there are plenty of couples making a good life for themselves. Communication is key imo.

I was lucky to be in a great marriage. We had 35 awesome years together until cancer took her away. Of course we had our ups and down like most couples, but we were good for each other and I would do it all over again in a heartbeat.

 

[Damo321]

Pics of your soon to be wife would be useful so we can all see if she is truly worthy……. include elbows and as much breast and ass meat as possible in the photo in order to receive a full and fair assessment.

 

[ThaiSexPills]

Hmm...obviously I don't know the dynamics of your relationship but have you guys seriously talked about the expectations of marriage? You might need to do that before you jump in.

Yes. She said she’d sign a prenup no questions asked and she just cared about having the dress on and her grandparents being there.

I never really cared at all but she wants it and I’m ok with it. It will make her happy and give her all that she wants. I get what I want all the time with new snowmobiles, motorcycles, playing senior hockey and buying expensive guns, my camp, and shit. I think it’s only fair. I don’t see myself with anybody else and I don’t want to.

 

[ThaiSexPills]

Pics of your soon to be wife would be useful so we can all see if she is truly worthy……. include elbows and as much breast and ass meat as possible in the photo in order to receive a full and fair assessment.

No can do but she’s 5’10. Her father and brother both have great hairlines. We’re not planning on kids but I like the genetics. I’m a big guy too, maybe we can breed an NHL power forward

 

[king hippo]

gl OP

people rag on it because in current day there's no incentive to stay together, in fact there's an incentive to divorce and women initiate divorce 70% of the time.

 

[Batjester]

Because it is?

 

[KeepingItReal]

After marriage the blowjobs dry up and the nagging goes up

Ps best of luck up you Sherbro, and may your post marriage BJs be plenty

I thought that was because guys are so busy fucking their ladies in the ass, there isn't any time for BJs.

 

[nonoob]

Sounds like you are on track with the right woman, congrats!

Finding the right woman with mutual future financial goals and plans are paramount to starting a good marriage. Mutual respect is a must, as are trust and love.

Family WILL be involved from both sides, and if previous children are involved life gets more complicated. Been together and married since the '80's and am STILL glad that we have each other to share life with.

 

[ThaiSexPills]

I like the "she's earned it" part, like you're getting married as a reward or a favor to her.

I don't know that every guy complains about it, but like the whole design of it is for the guy to give up some of his freedom for the woman to pursue her desire for motherhood in a stable environment, and for some strange reason, a lot of people don't seem to realize that in advance and thought you get married because it's the hottest chick that'll have sex with you.

I’ve had lots of hot chicks when playing major junior hockey and working on the road. I don’t care about that. I am attracted to her but basically, yeah it’s something she wants. I do get what you mean though. I think a lot of my buddies either did that or settled for the first woman who would put up with them.

I don’t give a shit about a ceremony. I don’t want to be with anybody else and I love the life we have together. I just couldn’t care less if we got married. I feel like most dudes don’t and just do it for her. It’s her dream, not mine. I am kind of excited about it too, don’t get me wrong but little boys don’t grow up dreaming of a wedding like girls do.

I spend tens of thousands of dollars every year on power sports and truck stuff, I feel the least I could do is give her something she wants for a change. She’s a great person and I want her in my life forever. I’m willing to do it and do whatever she wants, her way on this one thing.

I have a meeting with my lawyer next week to draw up a prenup though. I want to have my assets and stuff clearly defined. Besides that, I’m down lol.

 

[ThaiSexPills]

If you were truly happy, you wouldn't be parading this on the Dawg. Good luck.

I get you. I am but literally everybody tells me not to get married. All I read online and hear at work is how much guys regret marriage. I find it hard to believe I will because I’ve dated women before that could not compare and I think their problem is they had the wrong partner.

Still, yeah idk I guess I’ve just been programmed to believe marriage is bad but my brain tells me it won’t be and my father always said it was the best thing he ever did. He’s gone now but I know he’d tell me to. I guess I just wanted someone to tell me what I want to hear that it’ll ne fine and hear some positivity for once.

 

[Sweater of AV]

Yes. She said she’d sign a prenup no questions asked and she just cared about having the dress on and her grandparents being there.

I never really cared at all but she wants it and I’m ok with it. It will make her happy and give her all that she wants. I get what I want all the time with new snowmobiles, motorcycles, playing senior hockey and buying expensive guns, my camp, and shit. I think it’s only fair. I don’t see myself with anybody else and I don’t want to.

It sounds like you both know what you want and are very compatible. No need to spend time worrying. I wish you both the best.