Turns out that is the boyfriend, and she's calling for his attention but he keeps on walking and is ignoring her calls.
Doesn't take much when you're relaxed sitting back in a tall bar chair and not expecting it.
The only thing you got wrong was "inserting yourself in someone else's situation". I didn't insert myself into shit. She inserted herself into my buddy and i's convo.
But by the time I put that together I was on the ground and they were being elected
The dude saw the three of us talking outside, from inside the bar, got butthurt that his girl would dare to talk to anyone other than him, stormed off, she chases him down and brings him back outside to our table, I offer him my jacket, they go inside and grab jackets, come back to our table and he yeets me out of my chair within 3 seconds of coming back. Absolutely nothing that transpired warranted what he did. The security guy later told me that the same guy had been ejected and 86'd from another bar across the street for a similar situation. The situation was the result of napoleon complex mixed with too much alcohol in too small of a body. That's the explanation. I still don't understand her reaction though. She definitely had some drinks in her but she wasn't belligerently drunk like he was. Any woman I've ever dated, would have had an opposite reaction if I treated someone like that out in public. They would be saying "WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU?!" "WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!"Do you really need further explanation to understand the situation?
Taking his side in what exactly? She injects herself into my buddy and I's convo. I'm nothing but nice to her. She keeps calling me cute. Drunk manlet storms out of bar before I've even interacted with or seen him. She goes and grabs him and brings him back to where we are, presumably to introduce us all. He's wearing a t-shirt and shivering him, I offer him my jacket. He mumbles something twice. Neither my buddy or I hear what he said. The couple goes inside, comes back outside wearing jackets, I compliment the guy's jacket and he pushes me out of my chair. What is she taking his side in?
Again, I didn't go up to her and initiate. She came up to my buddy and I's table outside and started talking to us. She had mentioned her boyfriend in the convo that followed, but I didn't even know he was at the bar until he went walking through the parking lot and she went chasing after him.If a couple is at a bar, one is mumbling drunk and they aren't talking to eachother, that is a situation.
If the girl is talking to YOU, you are in that situation.
If you wish to debate over who inserted what where, i suggest you conduct that debate with Midget Mike.
Good luck with that
Exactly. All the clues were there.
-Talking to someone else's girl.
- that dude is wasted
- you weren't aware of him and let him get the jump on you.
All things considered you are fortunate you came out unscathed. Instead of tackling you and your barstool he just as easily could have sucker punched you or pulled you backwards off that stool head first towards the ground.
If someone is shitcan wasted, keep an eye on them. If they are that drunk, it is generally easy to see them coming.
The outcome of most bar altercations are heavily influenced by who is paying attention to the events as they unfold. This particular situation seems, from the details you provided, to have been easily avoidable.
Don't take your eyes off the angry drunk midget. Now you know.
I expect to get back what I put out into the world, and I was nothing but extremely kind to both of them.Lol a divorce addict with a kid wasn’t enough of a red flag
You needed an insecure manlet with anger issues to punk you to really drive home the situation
I would’ve used his head for a coaster and yelled at him if he movedI would’ve poured my beer on that can if he pushed me out of my chair
I expect to get back what I put out into the world, and I was nothing but extremely kind to both of them.
Look at it from manlets perspective. From your perspective you were just being friendly and charming and charismatic to both of them, from his perspective you were flirting with his girl and then being a smart arse to him. Little man syndrome is real.I expect to get back what I put out into the world, and I was nothing but extremely kind to both of them.
ThisOnce the manlet showed he was in opposition to you she was immediately on his side. She probably gets off on that stuff, they likely had hot sex thinking about you afterwards. You didn't need to know what was going on for their game. You were an NPC.
Exactly this.Lol a divorced addict with a kid wasn’t enough of a red flag
You needed an insecure manlet with anger issues to punk you to really drive home the situation
I didn't think anything was going to happen. I didn't make any advances on this chick and had no expectations other than basic decencyHaha @blackheart you literally just emasculated the guy that's why he pushed you.
Talking to his girl behind him, your boy telling him basically to speak up, then you offering your coat to him like he's a little boy. I don't think you realized it but basically you were big manning him the entire time, all you had left to do was pick him up and ask him if baby needed his bottle dude.
Also just from experience ex-addict women start all kinds of shit and ALWAYS back the man, what did you think was going to happen you guys were going to make out?