think he was being sarcastic, but I don't know. No, men don't just rush into everything. Even me, with all my experience didn't rush the guy breaking into my van, sure, I was on my way to whipping his ass but I didn't run at him. He claimed he's shoot me, bluff? Probably, but at any rate, the best thing to do in situations is to be calm and I was. Two other guys with him, maybe a gun, he stopped doing what he was doing and I stood my ground. But, I didn't just run eagerly into anything. Calmness and humility is hard for "real men" and it's hard for me too but that's what's required.