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Goggins being anti-social surprises me that he was able to make it through BUDS given how team orientated it seems to be.I've read Goggins's book and have listened to (and met) Jocko for years. Not much on Crenshaw besides his appearances on JRE and Jocko's podcast.
From what I can gather, Goggins is introverted and antisocial. I'm not saying this disparagingly and I think he would agree on that description. The overwhelming majority of his public image including Jesse Itzler's book Living With a SEAL and other sources are all about the SELF. Mental toughness, running ultra marathons, etc.
There's nothing wrong with that, but combined with his self-professed desire NOT to hang out and get beers with other team guys, his becoming a recruiter for the SEALs and literally getting paid to run marathons and talk about mental toughness instead of deploying overseas and his obsession with doing hard things just for their own sake (he went through 2 or 3 hell weeks, completed Ranger school and tried out for DEVGRU and Delta Force) makes it seem, to me at least, like he is more interested in collecting "merit badges" than actually fighting wars, killing bad guys and breaking their stuff. Least of all anything related to working with others, leadership or team concepts.
The combination of all these things is what I believe leads others in the SEAL world to not like Goggins very much.
I know Jocko catches heat on this site for how he talks and stuff but a lot of what he talks about his time in the SEALs is working with people that you consider to be family basically. All of Goggins stuff is about self.