Sorry this is an essay but feel its worthy discussion. So throughout my years of various girlfriends and I am sure many of you guys like me have noticed differences in your sex life with certain girls. So I feel like we all have the norms of typical sex we expect from our SO. I would say about 70% of the girls I have sex with was generally acceptable up to great. I can think of some past times were the sex was not good for various reasons and I could say that it is ground for not continuing/starting a relationship. Now we know no relationship is going to be perfect and there's always pros and cons and things that you will love or have to put up with the SO, so I am curious to see what you guys feel is not worth trying to keep it going if your personal needs aren't met and/or what are those sexual needs/desires.
So for me I can start from high school and this girlfriend at the time was like I dont suck balls, and Im thinking well someone has to suck my balls. I have come across a few girls that dont seem to be to motivated about it. Sometimes you have to guide there head down there thinking in your head like dont forget about those balls now. So i duno about yall, I personally think if a girl doesn't want suck my balls even groomed up too, that's not going to work long term.
I can think of a few times were there just didnt seem to be a great spark or wow factor in the bed too. Like sometimes you might have a girl that is perhaps like too quiet, like this one just barely a peep till she cumed. I mean Im not saying I require a screamer, but I dont mind a screamer. But you need a nice median, there needs to be at least some moans or a few "oh yas" or "oh just like that" in there you know or it seems a little awkward dont it? So this may be able to be worked on and ironically I had a girl that said I was to quite in bed sometimes, Im like girl do you see puttin in this work over here, do I look like I have the breath to be saying a whole bunch of shit. So I started calling her names like your my dirty little slut and she was happy LOL. I feel like this part of the topic could be very dynamic and not just verbal but just how they make love and is it deep and passionate. For example, I love a girl that will stick her tongue deep in my mouth and tornado that shit while some are so reserved with their tongue like wtf.
So Im like average dick size but on a rare few times, my average was too big for them, and that made the sex really suck when there in pain. Some of them just hurt too much when you go to deep even in positions that arent prone to it. I generally like to go hard as a mother and sink my ship as deep as I can. Its nice to have a girl that likes it ruff and have her hair pulled too. It has made me realize that if your bigger than average chances are your not having as good of sex with a higher % of girls out there. I really kinda disliked having to stop short at like 80%, something about it makes it harder to cum too. God bless you hung mofos out there and how you deal with it. So unfortunately, another reason I would have to move on. Size does matter.
Once I had this girl that had a lubrication problem and I guess doc wasn’t able to help enough. So again, it caused a lot of pain for her and a bummer for me.
How about not enough libido or quick cummer? I would say its rare but its out there in my experiences. So I had one girl that just came really quick like less than 5 min and started asking me when I am I going to cum, like wait what we just started. Luckily she was still able to stay lubricated and fuck with passion till I was done but a little annoying that she was ready for it to be over with so quick. She wasnt really down for a round 2 any time soon either so libidos and sex timing need to match up a bit.
How about bad pussy hygiene? Now I had girls where it was just an occasional thing or timing thing in the month thing, no bige right. But apparently there are some that gota prob on the reg. So this one chick we got started and she said she wasn’t into guys going down on her, I was soon to find out there was a reason for that. We started fucking and then the smell started to fill the room, it just got worse and worse and there was no ventilation, it was horrible, but I did finish. I actually don’t know if this was a reg thing for this chick cuz I didn’t end up coming back for more. She never said anything about the smell, like girI I know you smell this too. I actually kinda felt slightly taken advantage of, like why did she put me through that?
How about titty fucking? I would love to always have the option, Ive done it and cant say I personally absolutely need it. Its a nice option but I feel I can live without it, besides it like prob less than 30% of chicks out there you can easily titty fuck without trying to stretch those fuckers over too much.
So some chicks only want mouths and dicks near there pussy, no fingers. Sometime I feel like my fingers are neglected. Not a bige, not worthy for removal for me, but sometimes I just wana feel that pussy you know?
Last but not least. Experimenting and/or Kinkyness even if very occasional. Ok more so the main reason I made this thread, because I want to know if you expect a certain level or amount of kinkyness from your SO? Sometimes I feel like we should spice things up a little than just the reg, ofc the reg has to be good. But do you feel like yall should occasionally do something outside the norm, whether its anal, rim jobs, hancuffs, whippings, whatever the list goes on right, look it up. What do you and your SO do to sometimes spice things up, or do yall just stick with the reg? I would love to just occasionally fuck my girl in the ass, perhaps for my bday, or anniversary? I got no prob being kinky to my girl, she keeps her ass super clean so I eat her ass when I eat her pussy and she loves that shit but cant quite get her to return the favor just yet, maybe with time, perhaps with drugs too. I know it’s a big line to cross, but If I can get her to do that it would be epic. I got one freak to do it and its insane, if you never have had it done to you your missing out. Does your girl let you bust all over her face/mouth? I love that shit. She will rarely let me but its pulling teeth to do it. I feel like that is an occasional requirement for me, agree?
Cliffs: what does your girl allow you to do that is kinky outside regular sex and how often?
