Islam condemns terrorism and the murder of innocent people, but the most important fact is always left out of the discussion: Jihad isn't "terrorism" and infidels aren't "innocent." Similarly, Islam can condemn rape while leaving out the most important fact: but it's not rape if it's with an infidel. People think that only extremist groups or a small minority in Islam have these opinions, but Rotherham/Sweden/Germany etc show this to be widespread. The apologists think they can continuously side-step it by repeating #NotRealIslam. Governments which adopt Islam as law of the land and interpret their faith as they see fit "doesn't count" apparently.
Lefties see what is right in front of them yet they cannot help but make excuses for it because it contradicts their perception of reality.
It's pathetic that due fear of accusations of bigotry or racism, the police and social services were to affraid to act and allowed the Rotherham abuse cases to continue so long.
Islam itself has ingrained bigotry towards non-muslims in it's very doctrines and the attitude of disregard toward non-muslims is reflected in their behaviours. This isn't true of all of them but unfortunately it's a large percentage of even those living in Western countries.
I'm going to largely agree with you though. One of the increasing tenets of Western values these days is a rejection of strong moral/religious beliefs in others. Almost like we've reached a point where we want other people to be hedonistic while insisting that we must have strong moral foundations. Not a perfect description but I think you can get what I'm saying.
Considering the foundational parallels between Judaism, Christianity and Islam, Islam should be quite compatible with Western values. But it's not and I suspect the primary reason is because they have very strong convictions about the tenets of their faith while, as you said, Christianity and Judaism have watered theirs down to varying degrees.
I see what you are saying but I don't agree on the main points.
Firstly, despite being categorized as an Abrahamic religion many of their practices are very foreign to Western culture.
If we get past the fact that there have been centuries of war between Christians and Muslims it is clear that it proscribes various views that would not be acceptable. Yes it is conservative and values family so in that sense aligns with conservative views in someways, but not in many others. For exanple it also adheres to a form of polygamy with a man being able to have 4 wives.
There is the issue of underage girls and the controversy about Muhammad's wife Aisha who is believed to have maybe been 9 years old when the marriage was 'consumated' according to Islamic Hadith sayings. Yes this practice of child marriage was more common in may areas of the world at the time including Europe (although it would still have been after puberty only), but if you are recording in a book from 1500 years ago by the supposedly leading example of the religion and others may be interpreting that as ok, it's a problem.
Then there is the issue that a large percentage do not see non-Muslims as equals at all or worthy of the same rights as reflected in the laws in many Islamic counties, and wish to see Islamic laws in place if they had the chance.
This is what the article I linked discussed, that Islam is best seen as a legislative-religious movement not just as a 'religion'. It specifically goes against the idea of religion as a private affair which is totally against our values and against basic human rights. This is also why they go out of their way to advertise symbols of Islam and they are supposed to make themselves stand out.
I also don't think the issue in the West is people being against anyone having strong convictions. I don't see anyone having an issue with hardcore Buddhists for example.
It's the fact the Islam has legislative ambitions which come with it and tries to impose these in it's followers and the societies where it is allowed take root that put it at odds with the prevailing societies around it.
Talk to some Muslims and you will be able to find some who are campaigning for Sharia law to be applied to them and their communities, it's an inevitable consequence unless the toned down secularized Islam becomes the prevailing version.