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Id still throw in the towel
Inspired by the "hang bang" thread here
http://forums.sherdog.com/forums/f16/can-you-hang-bang-like-1290677/
When I spar I realize its not a contest. Ive sparred plenty guys trust me. But the thing is, if you get hit with a good shot, its like wow I cant believe you got tagged by a girl like that. 2, if you decide to lay a stiff jab right on her nose, then you become an asshole. Like I said ive seen it happen a million times, just not to myself. SO I avoid the whole scenario.
Never thought of it that way with the torch-passing...kind of hard to pass on the torch if the kid starts thinking he was holding the torch to begin with though. Just kidding.
But quit if a girl busted you. That's deep. I doubt you could quit from that...a lot of girls really can crack. You could be sparring the next leila ali for all you know. Fun stuff to think about. Got me thinking and smiling.
Inspired by the "hang bang" thread here
http://forums.sherdog.com/forums/f16/can-you-hang-bang-like-1290677/
Like I said, I know some women are badass, never said they aren't but me personally I'd have to call it quits had I gotten beaten. So I don't leave it to chance. Even if there's one good shot that she got in you never hear the end of it in the gym. Then God forbid you hit her back like you would hit a guy, then you become the gym asshole that beats up women. No thanks. I just leave the ring. Easier that way. It's a lose/lose situation and don't pretend your in that magical gym where everyone and every situation is treated equal. Its a lie. Like I said before, Ill train with women but never against one.
There's no winning in sparring, but there is that feeling of "I could have owned that guy" or "he definitely had me". Although most sessions ideally are somewhere inbetween.
Wow. Working together. Learning... how novel...
That shit dont fly at the Zelma Watson Rec center off MLK BLVD in Cleveland! MLK right next to E99 like Bone thugs in Hamonee! We fight to the death up in hee! East side motha F#!%aa! We use 16oz gloves and headgee so dare aint no evidence.
Well, at least thats how it feels sometimes. My coach agrees but the kids almost dont know how to go easy. Well, hopefully at OSU Ill have some guys who care about preserving brain cells and we control it somewhat. They wont have the same level of training or coaching unfortunately...
Hey CS,When you get older, you guys won't see it that way. I used to move around with a girl named Julie Maribello, she ended up winning the New England Golden Gloves either last year or the year before. I'd like to think that the work I gave her helped her get those wins.
When you have stable mates, you give them work to make them better. No one worries about dropping rounds in sparring, it's a terrible mindset to have.
Edit: Some info on Julie: http://boston.cbslocal.com/2011/04/01/sudbury-mom-makes-boxing-more-than-just-a-hobby/
Fighters are fighters, regardless of gender. Got plenty of respect for anyone who applies themself enough to fight, and I bring that same respect in the ring every time I spar.
lol, I hear that. Luckily, I have some pretty good people to work with right now. Although my main sparring partner is probably moving back to Europe in a month or so, if it happens it will suck.
I agree about the kids, I will get in there with them at times and be told to "work with them" but they don't what that means. They are full bore, swinging punches, etc. Eventually I have to start countering them, and I feel like a dick, but oh well. I pull my punches still (well most of the time, I have slipped once or twice) but they need to learn that they can't barge ahead in a straight line, and to cool it a bit. No female at our gym is interested in getting in the ring (well other than mitts), so that has never even come up with me.